{"id":3656,"date":"2022-12-15T11:33:32","date_gmt":"2022-12-15T16:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marissalingen.com\/blog\/?p=3656"},"modified":"2022-12-15T11:33:32","modified_gmt":"2022-12-15T16:33:32","slug":"on-recommendations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marissalingen.com\/blog\/?p=3656","title":{"rendered":"On Recommendations"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Last week on Zoom, my dear friend John Wiswell (read his work! I recommend it!) asked me how I handle book recommendations, with the sheer amount of reading I do. With a data set that large, how do I approach the question? he wanted to know. And I&#8217;ve been thinking about how to articulate it ever since.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you read here regularly, you know that I say at least a little bit about every book I finish. Every book. If I finish it, it gets mentioned in my book notes here twice a month. This started back in the early days of blogging&#8211;no seriously, we&#8217;re talking more than twenty years ago at this point&#8211;when I was trying to post every day, which was the style at the time. And some of what I&#8217;m thinking about on any given day is the thing I&#8217;m reading, so that was going into my daily blog post. I found it useful to be able to look back and say, here&#8217;s which book this was, here&#8217;s how I felt about that, but daily blogging was no longer a thing I wanted to do, so I consolidated it. Later I started doing periodic and then year-end posts that were just lists of short stories that I have enjoyed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With short stories, while I sometimes find things to say about them on twitter other than &#8220;this is good,&#8221; the list just goes up as a list, rarely any commentary. And the thing is: they&#8217;re short stories. They are not a commitment. Click on them, read a few lines, find out if you&#8217;re interested! But also <em>know they exist<\/em>. Obscurity is the greatest enemy of short stories (poems too).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With novels&#8230;well, let&#8217;s take a recent example that was an eARC so it got reviewed here in advance of the bimonthly book post. <em>Brotherless Night<\/em>, by V. V. Ganeshananthan. I used all sorts of positive language&#8211;&#8220;vivid,&#8221; &#8220;humane,&#8221; &#8220;nuanced.&#8221; I said, &#8220;I loved this book so much.&#8221; Do I recommend it to you? Well, sure. That is: I said things about it that should help make it clear whether I recommend it <em>to you<\/em>. Because there are very valid reasons not to choose to read a book about the Sri Lankan Civil War&#8211;one of our family member&#8217;s family members on the other side of the family personally fled that conflict, for example, and if those people look at it and think, oh, I hope this is beautifully done, I hope it&#8217;s a great book, and also I cannot take any more of this, I had too much of it in real life? <em>Valid<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And of course there are less extreme reasons why a book might not be for you! At least one of you regular readers, for example, basically never likes children&#8217;s books. Never. No picture books, no MG, no YA, she&#8217;s tried it, she keeps trying again at least once a year that I see, she <em>does not like children&#8217;s books<\/em>. I try to give enough information that major predictable categories like that will be clear&#8211;that she will not think, oh wow, humor and friendship and the lore of the Indian subcontinent, I definitely should pick up this <em>Aru Shah and the Nectar of Immortality<\/em>! And then be extremely disappointed for something that is not a flaw in either her or the book, just a mismatch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So&#8230;this ends up leaving me feeling like I don&#8217;t want to do &#8220;best books of YEAR&#8221; posts right now. I could do them with category markings (&#8220;best MG,&#8221; &#8220;best poetry collection,&#8221; sure), but most of how I want to talk about books&#8211;most of how I want to recommend books&#8211;is with a lot of context. And one of the things that does is make the line between &#8220;best&#8221; and &#8220;not really quite there&#8221; pretty blurry. So what I try to do instead is to bring things up in context&#8211;when somebody says they like historical fiction, for example, I will mention <em>Brotherless Night<\/em>. (Bullets can&#8217;t <em>stop<\/em> me from mentioning <em>Brotherless Night<\/em> at this point.) I will talk about Andrea Barrett&#8217;s recent collection and how she&#8217;s done worldbuilding stuff in historical fiction that is almost analogous to a fantasy world but with actual history. I&#8217;ll talk about my surprise at enjoying <em>The Marriage Portrait<\/em> as much as I did but that in the end I wanted it to go more places than it went&#8211;and I&#8217;ll  reply to what the other people are saying in that conversation, how they feel about historical speculative conceits in this context, how soon &#8220;history&#8221; starts in their tastes, all of it. I want recommendations to be a conversation, and there are very few contexts in which I don&#8217;t want to have that conversation. &#8220;Ooh, I&#8217;ve thought of a book you might like&#8221; is one of my favorite sentences. Even if I don&#8217;t, mostly, end up wanting to make a book list at the end of the year and draw a bright line through the murk. I like the murk, is the thing. Having thoughts instead of ratings is another of my favorite things.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week on Zoom, my dear friend John Wiswell (read his work! I recommend it!) asked me how I handle book recommendations, with the sheer amount of reading I do. With a data set that large, how do I approach the question? he wanted to know. 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